🌀 “So What?” — A Dream About Acceptance, Truth & Freedom
Third Eye Thursday | by Reiki RaEss of Something NuBian
🌙 Intro: Dreams Don’t Judge — They Reveal
Every dream you have is a mirror, not a verdict. Some reflect fears, others reflect freedom. Today’s dream came from someone who simply wanted to understand what her subconscious was whispering — and the lesson that followed was too powerful not to share.
💭 The Dreamer Said:
“I was talking to my brother-in-love outside a street lined with clubs. We were discussing my husband and his friends going to one — a place that’s mostly for gay men.
Something in his energy gave me the courage to finally ask, ‘Are you gay?’
He didn’t say yes, but his whole body said ‘so what?’ — a little wave, a little sway.
I’d always been curious… and somehow, that moment felt freeing.”
✨ My Response: Listening Instead of Labeling
First things first — I never claim to decode dreams. I listen to them. Dreams aren’t gossip from the spirit realm; they’re guidance from the soul.
When I hear this one, I sense permission.
That lively street with music and movement feels like a realm of expression — a spiritual dance floor where identity can exist without rules. It’s the dreamer’s inner self exploring what it means to let people be.
The brother-in-love’s “so what?” moment? That’s liberation in motion. Sometimes Spirit uses another person’s face to reveal our own lesson: that peace begins the moment we stop needing labels to love people — or ourselves.
🪞 Does It Mean He’s Gay?
Maybe. Maybe not. Dreams don’t deliver paperwork; they deliver perspective.
This scene could reflect him, but more likely, it’s about you: the version of you that’s ready to ask uncomfortable questions without fear of what the answer might change.
The soul loves curiosity — it cracks open old walls and lets compassion pour through.
💜 Chakra & Soul Notes
Third Eye Chakra: expanding perception beyond judgment.
Heart Chakra: learning to hold love without conditions.
Sacral Chakra: reclaiming emotional honesty and creative freedom.
✍🏾 Journal Prompts for Reflection
What truth or question have I avoided asking — within myself or my relationships?
How do I react when someone’s truth challenges my comfort zone?
What would a “so what?” mindset free me from today?
🌕 The Takeaway
Dreams like this remind us that healing isn’t always loud — sometimes it’s a quiet conversation in a dream alley under neon lights. It’s Spirit whispering, “Love people as they are, and love yourself enough to ask what’s true.”
📖 Dream Deeper with Me
If this reflection stirred something in you, stay close. My new book Third Eye Open: The Dream Journal – A Soul-Centered Guide to Remembering & Reflecting is coming soon.
It isn’t about finding the right meaning — it’s about creating space for your meaning to unfold. Because your dreams aren’t random. They’re revelations.
💫 “Reiki RaEss of Something NuBian shares a real-life dream about curiosity and acceptance — exploring how a simple ‘so what?’ moment in a dream can teach compassion, self-expression, and third-eye awareness. From her upcoming book Third Eye Open: The Dream Journal.”
🪬 Sending positive Inner-G and all negative energy back to the sender ✌🏾🫶🏾
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