Something Nubian

By Reiki Ra-ess, Positive Inner-G Coach, Soul Sleuth, and Vibe Investigator Extraordinaire

They Have the Skill, the Squad, and the Spotlight—So Why the Breakdown When Karma Comes to Collect?

“Ain’t nothing louder than a mean girl silenced by her own mess.” – Reiki Ra-ess, Inner-G Detective

The Setup – Mean Girl Energy Ain’t Always Basic

Let’s be real: mean girls aren’t always the loudest or the flashiest. Some of them walk in excellence, dripping in accolades, blessings, and attention. They’re educated, beautiful, spiritual even (whew, the irony), and got just enough talent to back the bark.

See, when you have the skills and the audacity, the world opens up for you. But too many confuse accolades for alignment. And when you’ve never done the inner work, all that clout just becomes a bandage over an unhealed ego.

A mean girl with talent? Dangerous.

A mean girl with a spiritual title? Exhausting.

But here’s the catch—they lead with ego, not elevation.

When Skill Becomes a Weapon Instead of a Tool

Confidence is necessary, but unchecked confidence turns into cruelty. And if we’re being honest, the ones with the most backup often feel the least accountable. They move like “I can’t be touched,” until they are—emotionally, spiritually, or publicly.

Cue the tears, the ghosting, the “I’m the victim now” story arc.

The Shift – What Happens When Life Clapping Back

The funny thing about mean girl energy?
It thrives when folks are clapping.
It shrivels when folks start watching in silence.

Soon as the tables turn, now it’s:

• “Why don’t women support each other?”
• “I’ve just been misunderstood…”
• “I’m the real victim here.”

But where was all that empathy when you were on the throne of criticism, giving out unsolicited opinions like they were healing?

One thing about life? It will humble you in a hoodie and house shoes. When the praise dims, karma gets its lick back, or their power no longer manipulates people, mean girls suddenly want empathy they never gave.

Healing requires a mirror—not a mob.

The Reflection – Inner-G Check and Detective Report:

Let’s run the scan:

• Are you lifting or belittling other women?
• Do you celebrate wins or secretly compete?
• Are your words wrapped in truth or toxicity?
• Do you know the difference between leadership and domination?

Because babyyyy… if your confidence needs a crowd to feel valid, it ain’t confidence—it’s performance.

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What’s the Inner-G Fix?

Reprogram the ego. Realign the vibe.

Lead with love even when the spotlight is dim.

Ground yourself in self-worth, not superiority.

Apologize without performing.

Ask yourself:

• Am I walking in confidence or arrogance?
• Do I use my influence to uplift or intimidate?
• Can I hold space for others without shrinking their shine?

That’s the Inner-G Detective work—real queens investigate their own energy first.

Closing Affirmation:
“I do not need to dim others to feel bright. My shine is rooted in truth, not superiority.”

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